It´s not all the users on dating sites who are on the look out for the “One and only”.Even though lots of sites cater for people who are on the lookout for uncommitted sex,and blatantly encourage it,it often occurs on niche sites.
In other words,you can easily get a request for a “one night stand”,when you have a profile on XL-Dating.Com.It sort of inclusive.Instead of getting angry or irritated in relationship to that,you can choose two other possibilities.Either say no thanks,if you are looking for a long term relationship,or check out what such a request can lead to.
Wish For The Unknown
Research shows,that many users go further than just flirts on XL-Dating.Com.There are many reasons for this.To a large extent,it´s the wish for the unknown that attracts.The opportunity for closeness,warmth and release.There are many that get turned on by the exitement of a “one night stand”.
The hunt,or just to be courted can make many peoples heart race with an increased pulse.It can be a pure adrenalin kick.
Need For Affirmation
For some, it´s about being noticed and appreciated.Like Helen 36:”I thought that it was going to be difficult to get my female desires met.I´m not a model looking women weighing in at 120lb.I´m actually twice that weight.I also have my dreams,needs and feelings.When I the first time dared to explore intimacy with one of my dates,I experienced a door opening up for me.I now feel that it is exciting what a date leads to.If a man gets turned on by me,and if I think that he is gorgeous, I feel that my self esteem has grown.I feel sexy, attractive and desired.It´s fantastic,and I never experienced this before I started dating on XL-Dating.Com.I also make sure, that we have a clear agreement before we start.I demand that we have a clear agreement,and that I can opt out, if I don’t feel the spark between us.It´s always been respected.
Sex On XL-Dating.Com Has It`s Justification
On the basis of Helens story one can say,that uncommitted sex via online dating has it´s justifications.Especially when there are clear arrangements in place in advance.Sometimes it also develops, so that what was supposed to be just a one night stand,develops and recurs several times, and might even develop into a long term relationship.But that doesn´t happen that often.A “one night stand” often lives up to its name,that it only happens one night.
Look After Yourself.
Finally,just at last we´ll play the devils advocate.There are some risks related to uncommitted sex.Take a deep breath and feel whether you feel secure and comfortable with person that you are going to be intimate with.If not,then forget about it.Secondly:Protect yourself.If both of you have changing partners,then there is a chance of pregnancy and STI(sexual transmitted diseaes)
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